Good vibes only or All vibes welcome? My personal take

Some say "Good vibes only", others say "All vibes welcome". Here's my take on them. Understandably, whilst it's good to have good vibes, it's just as important to allow all vibes, not just the good vibes as only allowing good vibes would invalidate people who are not feeling good if they're going through rough times as some would call it toxic positively so by allowing all vibes would again help their feelings to be accepted rather than 'cheer up' or 'snap out of it' (which I would say low effort positively).

However, I would like to propose something that may or may not be forgotten. Just because you allow all vibes, this should not mean that you should allow someone who takes advantage of you, treat you or others like garbage or bring you down with their toxic negative vibes. Whilst some may have a reason not to be positive, they are still responsible for their actions and their toxic negatively will have an effect on others especially if they make no effort to use practical solutions or get help to overcome their problem. So there are times when you have to draw a line and cut off from those bad vibes for your own self worth. Don't get me wrong, I get that some may go through a storm including myself but only we can make our own choices to resolve them for the better as we would weigh others down overtime.

 
I've become critical over the last few years on where to focus my vibes if it's worth my time and mental health. As I am aware of course, there are things that I can't take a blind eye to news and other content including on social media but only if they inspire me, make me happy and if I have anything that I can respond to a meaningful cause within my control whereas if I detect meaningless drama and negativity, I should consider if those vibes are worth investing in.

So I say it's good to allow all vibes but only if they're legitimate and not toxic where it's still good to have good vibes to not only make you feel good but others around you if they're feeling anything but good, giving them a reason to keep going (by reaching out and helping them along the way).

An update

 Hi, I am doing well in life. Here are a few updates I would like to mention:

Firstly, I've been updating some of my older posts, adding some new guys on my guys list including Sam Cushing, Sam Drew, Leo Berkshire, Donny Harrington, Julian Larach, Dominic Kalfos, Sam Wicks and others, Pokemon and TV Tropes that I like. You can check out the by the following links:

https://mcbustedeon.blogspot.com/2018/12/my-top-guys_5.html

https://mcbustedeon.blogspot.com/2018/12/my-top-male-adult-stars.html

https://mcbustedeon.blogspot.com/2018/12/my-top-male-models-and-bodybuilders.html

https://mcbustedeon.blogspot.com/2018/12/my-top-pokemon.html

https://mcbustedeon.blogspot.com/2019/12/favourite-gen-8-pokemon.html

https://mcbustedeon.blogspot.com/2019/01/tv-tropes-i-like-and-ones-i-avoid.html

Next, I've been playing some new games lately including Persona 4 Golden and Persona 5 Royal. I've enjoyed them both throughout with their likable characters, fun battle system, neat soundtrack, variety of free time activities and engaging story line that always want me to find out what happens next. This adds Persona to my favourite video game series list. 

Trivia Tricks is another game that I've been playing which is made by my close friends who have been working hard on it. It's a quiz game with a variety of questions based on different topics including video games, animal, movies and anime. I've been helping out by suggesting some questions. It have a lot of character with regular updates, chance round to turn the tide of the game and variety of bosses that gives you a challenge. You can check out the game on Steam here and its Discord community where you can submit questions here.

I've also been playing Planet Zoo where I've made my own Zoo with a variety of animals. As an animal lover and a fan of Zoos, I knew that it would be the kind of game for me. Here's an example of a South American themed exhibit with Anteaters and Tapirs:

Some of its game mechanics can take a while to get used to but it's rewarding to create the kind of Zoo of your dreams with updates that keeps you coming back to it. 

However, I have also experienced a great sadness as earlier this year, my pet Corn Snake Fangs who I had for 14 years have sadly passed away. He was a cute, friendly snake who always like to see what's going on as he seemingly watch out from his vivarium and comfortable being handled. I am publishing this blog post on the day when I first had him. I am missing him but I'm living my live to the fullest for him, thankful for him for being part of my life and to give him the best life I can possibly give him. 

I will always remember you Fangs. 

“Even if someone is missing, life must go on I believe that there is light somewhere in this world where nothing is certain. You gave me the courage to stay strong So that I won't lose So that I won't look down in shame. I really want you to stay by my side, but because you're here because your heart is here. Even when we're apart, I'll be able to walk on my path” - Hanareteite mo -  Digimon Last Evolution Kizuna